When one has cancer, it is easy to get caught up in a pity party. We ask questions like, “Why did God allow this to happen to me?” or “Why isn’t God healing me?” How you view your cancer will determine the answer to these questions.
God never allows anything in our lives that will not benefit us. Each trial molds us more into His image. It is like the Refining Silver post that has circulated the Internet. The Silversmith refines the silver until he can see his face in it. The more we go through this trial, the more the Holy Spirit will refine us and He will eventually see Christ in us. I hope that makes sense to you. The Lord may not heal us, but He will draw us closer to Him so that we have complete peace through this trial. We must keep our eyes fixed on our Creator! I hope you are blessed by this story!! It’s all in our attitude 
One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people can be.
They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
On their return from the trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?” “It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked. “Oh yeah,” said the son. “So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father. The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they have four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.
We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.
We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.
We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs.
We have walls around our property to protect us and they have friends to protect them.” With this, the boy’s father was speechless. Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”
Too many times we forget what we have and concentrate on what we don’t have. That is one person’s worthless object is another’s prize possession.
It is all based on one’s perspective. Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks to God for the bounty we have been provided by Him instead of worrying about wanting more.
